A lifelog of a well-travelled single parent who had a life extension in 2000, blogs indiscriminately about her journey through life fulfilling unfinished business and promises that will soon complete her existence...

::Disheartening News

Tuesday, May 18, 2004

Too early in the morning, about 4:00 a.m., I was awakened by my eldest son's overseas call! He was complaining about the job assigned to him which was not related to the job he has applied for here in Manila and worse, he wanted to go home!

I found out some co-workers and fellow kababayan influenced his way of thinking, and he believes there's injustice with the salary given to him, I explained with him many things:

  1. he is working to get experience and not really for high salary
  2. he should not listen with anyone who does not speak good about the job or against his employer
  3. stay focus and observe perseverance
  4. he should talk nicely with his fellow worker who was stealing his food, not to do it again unless in case of starvation
  5. he should take some days off the net, and give himself more time to rest or go to the grocery to buy his food
  6. and the most important thing of all, many people believe in him and he should not go home a failure

Most of my nephews and nieces were following the footsteps of my children and I advised my son that it's about time to do good, not only for himself and for his future children, but, also to set a good example to the family clan. Being my eldest son of a single parent, his success is not only my fulfillment but will also encourage his cousins to be more serious with their studies, with their life...


Posted on May 18, 2004 08:35 PM TrackBack


butterfly Let me know you were here, your thoughts are welcome!

Sounds like great advice. I always tell my kids that no matter what they do, they are gaining experience for future endeavors. That job as CEO of Microsoft is not going to be open very soon and they probably will not win the job, so they might want to pick a more realistic job. They may have to do a few things they don't enjoy and as they move up, they'll have good times and bad as they work toward that perfect job. From what I know of you and your posts, I know you are a good mother to your children and have given them the tools to move up, and it is now their time to use those tools. You can't do it for them, all you can do is sit back and pat them on the back when they do well, and give them some options when things aren't going so well. I hope it works out for him.


Posted by: rwo on May 25, 2004 03:41 PM

Please write responsibly. Thank you!









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