A lifelog of a well-travelled single parent who had a life extension in 2000, blogs indiscriminately about her journey through life fulfilling unfinished business and promises that will soon complete her existence...

Facebook

Friday, July 31, 2009

Randy and I activated some Facebook games like Pet Society, Farmville, Mafia Wars, and Restaurant City, for a change.

We're both playing the above games with our children.

Posted at 11:46 PM

CENOMAR

Monday, July 13, 2009

My daughter arrived in the afternoon while I was busy doing my Certificate of Non Marriage (CENOMAR) request online. Direct request to NSO will cost me Php 140.00, Php 415.00 with e-census.com.ph, and Php 1,000.00 if done thru a liaison agent.

On Friday, July 10, 2009 at 8:58 am, I inquired from e-census.com.ph what is Advisory on Marriages and how can I get one and I received this reply from them:

Thank you for your e-mail.

Should the marriage record be found at the National Indices of Marriage of the National Statistics Office (NSO), your request for CENOMAR will result to an Advisory on Marriage (AOM), or what is more commonly known as the Certificate of Marriage (CEMAR).

You may submit your request for CENOMAR via our website (www.e-census.com.ph).

Thank you.

Yours truly,

e-Census Operations

The preparation to file the fourth case is quite stressful. Both Randy and I are praying for wisdom and resources to make things possible in our favor. I have heard from Atty R that the presiding judge who denied my petition for Declaration of Nullity of Marriage has his marriage annulled. If that is the case, why all petitioners' request for Annulment had been denied in order to finish off long pending cases?

Anyway, it's been a stressful day. My daughter left after printing some magazine pages and calling cards. It's time for my beauty rest.

Posted at 10:16 PM

Back Pain

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Randy did it again!

He twisted a nerve at his lower back, causing him severe pain and sleepless night.

Tintin is ill for the past three days and I think I will be next... I feel exhausted and I will try to nap while Randy is resting.

Posted at 11:40 PM

Psychological Testing

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Psychological Test has five sets:

  1. Personality Test (information about me, my family and the husband side)
  2. Self-Analysis / Completion Test (Phrases given to complete a sentence)
  3. Draw a person (male and female) and copying bender cards
  4. Marital History
  5. True or False based on Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory (MMPI) Book (written in Tagalog, 566 total questions)

If there will be one reason why I should hate being born in this country is the inability of our lawmakers to pass a Divorce Bill Law, to protect abandoned women and children!

Posted at 11:07 PM

Marital History

Friday, July 10, 2009

My room was a real mess.

As part of the psychological testing requirement, I was told to draft a Marital History of my marriage, which I will submit tomorrow.

Memories... digging into the past documents to recall certain events, birthdays, addresses, and blah blah blah strained my brain's remote memory system.

Before going to bed, I had been practicing to draw a woman... all body parts must be there, according to Vera, as each part has equivalent score.

Not sure, though, whether I could sleep well tonight... may all the saints be on my side...

Posted at 11:49 PM

Advisory on Marriages

Thursday, July 09, 2009

Atty. R called up at 3:48 PM and reminded me about Saturday's schedule to the psychiatrist clinic.

Also, she asked me to go to NSO and ask for Advisory on Marriages, to find out if the biological father of the kids married another woman, while our marriage is still valid.

Posted at 11:12 PM

Food for the soul

Wednesday, July 08, 2009

Randy went to bed late... but, we prayed before logging out.

He played some of his favorite songs like:

Whenever he's playing the music, I browsed for its lyrics and we sang to its tune... It's hard when we're 7,000 miles apart. All what we could do is sing! Guess, we're both still adjusting...

Posted at 11:05 PM

Feeling Better

Tuesday, July 07, 2009

I guess I was just love sick...

Posted at 11:04 PM

Be well

Monday, July 06, 2009

To Former President Corazon Aquino who is hospitalized due to lack of appetite, Randy and I are praying for your safety and well-being.

To Gloria Arroyo who had Executive Checkup two days ago at Asian Hospital and Medical Center, I hope you will get better soon. The country needs you to complete your term.

Today, I have sore throat and occasionally experienced difficulty in breathing. If I don't feel well tomorrow, I will go to a nearby hospital to have my checkup... with my fingers crossed, hope it is not A(H1N1)...

When Randy logs on, we will include the above well-loved women in our prayers. He arrived home at 6:38 AM Manila time and contacted me on Skype. Our Skype calls dropped every 5 minutes, which was kind of weird. It's not Bayantel's fault this time, I have good internet connection after they bundled my phone and internet lines. We never tested Skype calls when we upgraded Skype to the latest version while he's here in Manila.

Anyway, Randy's resting well from a long 26 hours trip. I shall wait for him to come online...

Posted at 11:01 PM

Safe Flight

Sunday, July 05, 2009

Randy and Me 2009

Randy and I left to NAIA at 5:10 AM.

We realized we forgot to take some pictures again together. So, at the last minute, we took two remembrance shots from my N82 camera phone before he got off from the car. Seeing him leaving breaks my heart. We're planning to eat our breakfast in one of the airport restaurant but we changed our mind the last minute, to avoid the hassles Randy will deal with, at the immigration's screening procedures. I headed back home when I saw him entered the airport premises.

Randy called up at 8:12 AM. He's done with all the immigration stuffs and waiting for the boarding announcement. We talked for about 20 minutes then he hanged up to board the plane.

Meanwhile, mama left early while I was sleeping. She received a call from Ate Neth's place that she should be there to assist the electrician on what to repair. I only found out that she left when my daughter arrived. Sweetie was surprised that Randy's not around. She misunderstood me and she'd thought he was leaving on the 19th. She was sad because she's planning to treat us out to a buffet dinner...

Anyway, Randy left already via JALWAYS Flt No. 746 with connecting flight to Los Angeles, CA (LAX) - TOM BRADLEY International Terminal then he will take a local flight back to San Diego. Have a safe flight, Randy!

Posted at 11:27 PM

20th Night

Saturday, July 04, 2009

The moment of truth has come once again... Randy will be leaving tomorrow at 9 AM.

Days passed by so quickly. His luggage is ready for tomorrow and we're supposed to leave to the airport at 5:00AM.

Mama visited to spend the weekend with us. Daughter promised to visit us tomorrow.

Posted at 11:54 PM

Firefox 3.5

Friday, July 03, 2009

Randy and I upgraded our Firefox browser to version 3.5. Several times FF crashed whenever we're running TW scripts.

It's too late for us to reverse what we have done.

In the meantime, Randy baked two loaves of bread and Devil's Food Cake. We served the dinner late waiting for my daughter to eat with us but she seemed busy with her magazine launching.

We watched couple of CSI episodes in DVD to keep my mind off from things that will just hurt my feelings. I had chest pain lately.

Posted at 11:41 PM

Grocery and bills

Thursday, July 02, 2009

Randy and I left to Trinoma at past 10 AM.

We paid first some bills before we had a KFC meal for breakfast then we did some grocery shopping. We bought some baking ingredients for the cake and other kitchen stuffs.

Randy loves cooking and baking. That made us a good match as I love to eat and clean the kitchen.

Posted at 11:25 PM

July 10 Deadline

Wednesday, July 01, 2009

Since last night, I had difficulty breathing after I posted my blog entry. I have been taking Stresstabs for the past two days.

At 10:23 AM this morning, I called up Atty. R and she reminded me that we have until July 10th to submit our Motion For Reconsideration, in case I will not file a new one.

To file Psychological Incapacity as ground for Case IV Nullity of Marriage, I must see a psychologist first, along with four credible witnesses, for evaluation purposes whether I can file a case or not. Schedule is set temporarily set on July 11th...

Glad Randy is very understanding and supportive...

Posted at 11:51 PM
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